My friend recommended a divorce lawyer, but she is located in NY, could I use her considering I live in NJ now?… what about divorce mediators? My ex-to-be and I don’t "hate" each other, and I think we want the same things.. is it easier to use a mediator? any advice is welcome- this is all very new to me. (serious help only)
You need to look into the laws for your state but typically where ever you lay your head down a t night is where you have to file for divorce at!
* if you and you husband can sit down and talk rationally don’t waste your money on a mediator


