Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …
“I am afraid of being hurt again, but I really wish to find my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?
You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can wait until you have had enough time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and releasing the past. Considering you desire to reach your soul mate, then I would do the work in letting go. It is faster and simpler than you think. Getting assistance from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Consider releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You are making new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I know some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really should be forgiven for his behavior. It was wrong and that is just that”! The will it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You are allowing your happiness to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow trickle in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it has not already. What’s more, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in this present moment. When you do not have your power in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that burden you, clutter up your energy field and block you from going in the right direction to having the life you were meant to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiveness can be a complicated one. Firstly, I am not talking about the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s important to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to realize what will work for you and what doesn’t. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the space of hurt, you’ll either create more pain or have a difficult time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old pain, then release and let in new love.
