The judge has set an appointment with a mediator but I’m not sure what that person’s role is.
A mediator is a person who is trained in the particular area of law and provides an independent look at the case. All parties are present and the mediator will take an independent look at both sides of the case. Based on the mediator’s training and experience, he or she will try to persuade both parties to compromise based on what is likely to happen in court. Most mediation in family law matters is non-binding, meaning you can accept or reject the mediator’s recommendations.
If the parties are reasonable and act in good faith, mediation can be a great benefit in resolving disputes. Where one or both parties are unreasonable, dishonest, or act in bad faith it can be a costly waste of time. Fortunately, the courts can charge those who refuse to mediate in good faith with the total cost of mediation.
Good luck with your mediation.
