I have been separated from my ex for over 2 yrs & we have 2 small children, ages 6 & 8. We have joint custody & we share the time with them almost equally. When I am away from them I am a mess & can’t help but blame myself for this mess. How do i move forward & try to feel happiness again? I feel like my life is just falling apart!
Sounds more like you’re feeling sorry for YOURSELF. The kids will be fine. I’m not saying it’s gonna be easy. Is it hard? yes. The best thing for you to do is make sure you’re being a good female role model for your children. Don’t ever let them see you while you’re goin through one of your spells. Have your house/life in order and concentrate on other activities while your kids are gone. Regardless if you like your ex or not, the kids will be cared for. You’ll get through this.


